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Ask anyone about the ways to endure long distance relation and you will know
that it is enough to drive you to insanity. Handling the absence of your partner
is something that only the tough ones can go through. But then desperate times
can bring out the best in anyone. Also, the hope of meeting your beloved someday
keeps them smiling and braving the distance. Read further on how to survive a
long distance relation and make it easier for both you.
Photographs
Make a scrapbook of your partner's photographs. If you can, take print outs of
his/her photos and stick it on your bedroom wall or put it in a photo frame by
your bedside. That way atleast you can "look" at him/her whenever you feel
lonely and miss your beloved.
Communicate Daily
Make sure you talk to each other daily, even if it is for 5 minutes. If you
cannot talk, use the Internet and send mails daily. It need not be anything
special. Just talk about how was your day and ask how was his/her day. Tell
something that stood out or something that made you feel good. Strike a
conversation like you would have done if you both were together.
Little Things Matter
So what if your beloved is 3000 miles away from you? You can always sense what
your beloved uses in his/her daily life. Buy that cologne he uses or get those
aroma candles she loves. That way, you can always feel that he/she is right
there, near you. Learning about their daily lives is a great way to keep the
relation healthy and alive.
Plan your Meeting Together
Keep the excitement alive by planning your meeting together. That way, both of
you will treasure the moment you meet and will be looking forward to it. Make a
list of things-to-do together when you meet. It will keep you from sulking till
the time you are apart and you can always make plans to make your meeting
special.
Set a Limit of your Absence
When you set a particular deadline of the time you are going to be away from
each other, you will not be as depressed as you will know that your wait is
limited and will be satisfied by the mere feeling that someday you will be
united again. You wouldn't be bogged down with the thought that you would have
to wait forever.
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