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Peer pressure means being influenced or pushed over by friends to do something
you do or do not wish to do. Adolescence is an age when teenagers are still
trying to make an identity for themselves. They have a desperate need to belong.
Thus, they become a soft target for peer pressure where bad advice, curiosity to
try something everyone else is doing or just the fear of being teased by friends
lead the teens to do things, they would rather not do left to their better
judgement. This is also the crucial time for making many decisions as they are
exposed to several different cultures and value systems at once. Teens’ behavior
and perception of life depends much on the peer pressure.
They may have to struggle with their own friends to steer away from drugs,
violence, sex and overspending money among other things. Formal dating has been
replaced informal socializing patterns with casual sex relations in mixed-sex
groups that have increased the risk of exposure to AIDS and other sexually
transmitted diseases. While peer pressure is not always negative and may
reinforce family value systems, an adolescent is exposed to several groups of
peers at once - at college, in the neighborhood, at playgrounds, political
associations and romantic ties. The levels of these groups may differ from one
person as a friend to crowds. All of these groups may have unique traits, norms,
cultures and value systems and slowly teenager drifts towards groups that hang
together more and thus, peer relationships emerge.
At adolescence, peer relations become the core of teens’ lives and activities
and young people like to socialize and have fun with their peers rather than
their families. Adolescents become more and physically and psychologically
distant from their parents and these distances diminish emotional closeness and
warmth between them and there are frequent conflicts and disagreements between
them. Kids seem to prefer their peers for close relations. In smaller cities,
suburbs and rural areas, it is being seen that youth gangs are becoming a
recognizable peer group, especially among economically disadvantaged families
and families where parents are distant or unavailable for their children.
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