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Raising boys without Daddy has always been considered very difficult.
Traditionally, people think that women are not fully qualified to give their
sons the all-round upbringing that they need and once they have to face the
world, they prove to be failures. According to the myths, fatherless children,
especially boys, do not perform well on school grades or in games and their
future is doomed. With the rise of unconventional families, single mom families
are not so uncommon and we need to break these myths and negativity in
perception of people from traditional two-parent homes. In this article, we are
mentioning fatherless sons, who grew up to be quite successful men and became
celebrities in their own right:
* Alexander Haig, Jr. - Former White House Chief of Staff and Secretary of
State, Alexander Haig is said to be associated with the right wing. Yet, people
who know him more closely, say that he is quite moderate and down-to-earth. In
his book ‘Caveat’, he mentions that military power and economic strength are
important for a country but a peaceful world full of human values, social
justice and human genius is the ultimate goal of America.
Born in the suburbs of Philadelphia on December 2, 1924, Alexander helped his
mother to make both ends meet, ever since his father died at the time when he
was 10 years old. He started with delivering newspapers, worked for the post
office and a refinery and as a store floorwalker. In 1969, he became the
Brigadier general and in 1981, he became the 59th US Secretary of State. Despite
all the struggles that he had to go through, Haig insists that his boyhood was
quite normal.
* Ed Bradley - CBSTV News Correspondent and co-editor of ‘ 60 Minutes’, Ed
Bradley has won an Emmy award. Born on June 22, 1941 in Philadelphia, Bradley's
parents separated soon after his birth. His father owned a business in Detroit
and his mother worked as a waitress and could only do enough to make ends meet.
In his childhood, Ed used to fo to his Dad’s place for summers and for the rest
of the year, he used to live with his mother and attended Roman Catholic
schools. Bradley had one motto that he firmly believed in - You can be anything
you want. In 1959, Bradley befriended George Woods at Cheyney State College, who
was a disc jockey for the Philadelphia radio station WDAS FM.
Known for his impressive interviews, Bradley was give his first chance to
announce a minute of news by Woods. He was so nervous that he forgot to vary his
pitch and add nuances. Later, Woods announced him to be a ‘Monotone’. Undaunted
by his first attempt, Bradley became hooked on broadcasting and started working
as an unpaid disc jockey and news reporter at WDAS. He taught for a while after
graduating from college in 1964 but later earned a job at WDAS by covering the
Philadelphia race riots for 48 hours. In 1967, he landed a job at CBS radio in
New York, became a stringer for CBS's Paris bureau and went to Southeast Asia
for 18 months where he was wounded in Cambodia.
* Rickey Henderson - The star baseball player is known for his speed, powerful
shots, high average and sharp batting eye. Ricky Henderson is reputed as the
‘guy who keeps pitchers awake all night’. His childlike personality is as famed
as his athletic skills and he simply loves children. He talks with young
spectators, before, after or even during games and has handed out broken bats to
children as souvenirs. Rickey was born on Christmas Day in 1958 in Chicago,
Illinois. His mother Bobbie Henderson was a nurse and his father was a truck
driver.
Just a few months after his birth, his father abandoned the family and his
mother moved to her parents in Pine Bluff, Arkansas with her eight children.
With the help of the grandparents, his mother worked hard to provide for all of
them. They moved to Oakland later. As young as eight years of age, Rickey was
already a local phenomenon in baseball. A's star outfielder, Reggie Jackson, was
Rickey’s first idol. In 1976, Henderson was selected by the A's. His mother
urged him to not to give in to the temptations of numerous football scholarships
he was being offered and stick to baseball and got him signed with the Oakland
Athletics. In 1984, he joined the New York Yankees for a five-year contract that
was reportedly worth $8.6 million.
* Tom Cruise - One of the most famous, successful and highest paid actors of
Hollywood, Tom Cruise was born as Thomas Cruise Mapother IV on July 3, 1962.
When he was 11, his parents got divorced and his mom took her four children to
her hometown, Louisville, KY. There she struggled hard to gain financial
stability including selling appliances and hosting electronics conventions. In
1986, they were going through such financial crisis that Mapothers wrote poems
and read them to each other as gifts for Christmas because they couldn’t afford
anything else.
Apart from divorce and move, Tom and his sisters also had to deal with dyslexia.
Cruise had difficulty in making new friends and attended special remedial
classes. He became more and more involved with sports and remembered feeling
vulnerable because of the divorce of his parents and learning disabilities. He
felt a desperate need to belong but could not find courage to make new friends
and acquaintances in Louisville. At 14, he thought that a structured environment
at a seminary may help him and thought of becoming a priest. He enrolled at a
Franciscan seminary in Cincinnati but later dropped the idea.
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