Being in love with a Virgo man means living in a practical world, where there
will no be fairytale dreams. If you are too sentimental, then better take a
u-turn right now. You will have to wait a long time to get him involved in a
relationship. Even when he does, don't expect him to sing romantic poems for you
or stand under your window to serenade you. It is not that Virgo men do not know
how to love; just their way of expressing it is different from others. They are
extremely dedicated towards their family and friends.
They are constantly involved in helping them and have a strong sense of work and
duty. Too much display of emotions makes them uncomfortable and too conscious. A
Virgo male will stick to you when you need him the most, care for you and
dutifully carry out all the responsibilities a husband is expected to do.
However, don't burden him with extreme sentiments, mushy affection and tearful
promises. If he doesn't run away, he will become too cold and even the subtle
display of affection from his side may come to a stop.
This doesn't mean that a Virgo guy cannot be softened at all. You have to keep
the temperature just right. Too much aloofness or too much closeness is not what
he wants. A little bit of sensuality, mixed with some intelligence and an
interesting disposition is what he desires. To him, quality of time spent with
you will mean more than the quantity. He is usually very cautious while forming
a relationship. If it still doesn't turn out to be right, he will bury himself
in work, avoid social gathering and be triply cautious with people.
Virgo men do not run after girls and romance. Infact, they do not mind being
single at all. So, you will have to make a Virgo realize that he has fallen in
love and needs to form a relationship. Remember, subtlety is the key to all
this. If he wants, he can seduce you very easily, while being subtle all the
time. He is not prone to flirtations, so you have no reasons to doubts his
intentions. Infact, he is too sensitive, selective and honest to indulge in such
kind of behavior. The love of a Virgo man is clean, innocent and pure, though it
may take some time to win it.
Never expect him to fall in love with you at the first sight. He is very
cautious about everything and that includes love and relationships. Lying will
get you nowhere with him. He wants a genuine and honest relationship and cannot
stand dishonesty even for a second. Stirring the emotions of a Virgo male is a
very difficult task, because he never consciously looks for a mate. Remember, he
does have a heart; you just have to sway it the right way. It may take time, but
it will be worth the wait.
Once you have won his heart, you will never again feel unloved or uncared for,
in your entire life. His love will burn for you with a steady flame, which will
never flicker even for a minute. You will be rewarded with a husband who is
totally sincere, patient, dependable and forever loving. You will never have to
worry about stability again, whether it is emotional or financial. A Virgo man
is not at all prone to wandering and you will never ever have to keep an eye on
him. You will practically be showered with care and concern, whenever you need
them.
He has a sharp memory and will remember even the minutest of details. You
wouldn't have to remind him about anniversary or birthdays or other important
dates. He may not understand why these days are so important to you, but he will
remember them nonetheless. Virgo men are not too jealous, but they are
possessive in the extreme. They very loyal and will expect the same from you. It
is better to burn the love letters of your ex-boyfriends. Once something gets
over for them, its over. Emotional appeals and tears wouldn't budge them an
inch.
So, better play on the safer side. A Virgo man doesn't like dumb females, who
are ignorant and stupid. You may be the hottest babe in the block. But, if you
do not have brains, he wouldn't even look at you. Impropriety and rudeness turns
him off. So, forget wearing that short, revealing black dress of yours. His kind
of female has to be clean - body, mind and soul. If you want to win the love of
a Virgo male, make sure that you have impeccable manners, spotlessly clean
house, excellent cooking skills and decent dressing sense. He is prone to
finding faults in others, but please don't give him specifics reasons to do so
in your case.
He will be a very responsible father and will help sharpen the intellect of the
children. He will also imbibe good manners, etiquettes and the quality of
helping the needy in them. You will never need to worry about discipline, as he
will work on that front too. However, you will have to teach your Virgo husband
how to express his love and affection and control his critical behavior. When he
becomes a little cranky, just leave him alone and he will again be his usual
self pretty soon. With a Virgo man, you will have a tender companion who will
shower you all with love and care, even when you don't look twenty anymore! |
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