Pisces baby lives in a dream world, where there are elves, fairies and magic
trees. He is somewhat different from the other babies, he will never shout,
scream or throw tantrums for getting things done. He has a better tactic up his
sleeve; he will charm you into agreeing for whatever he wants. Even after he
grows up, the childish, wistful aspect of his personality will never go away.
Make-believe world will always appeal to him. Whenever you are doing something
important, just create a small little world around him.
Use some soft toys, balloons, dolls, etc, to do that and you will never even
hear a word from him. A Piscean baby has a very sharp sixth sense and intuition.
This particular personality trait may catch you off-balance quite a number of
times. You will face a great amount of difficulty to make him adhere to
schedules and routines. He will not eat because it is time for dinner or sleep
because it is 11:00 pm. He wants to eat when he's hungry, sleep when he's tired
and play when something attracts his fancy.
It will be better if you adjust yourself to his schedule. Infact, your Pisces
child will teach you not to be a slave of the clock. For him, it is just a piece
of machinery, which should never dictate how you live your life. He is not too
confident about his abilities and will have to be reassured time and again.
Don't forget to give him lots of attention and admiration. Then, every now and
then, he will want to be left alone. It is better to leave him alone in such
silent spells and he will come back in some time, though it may turn out be the
time for dinner rather than lunch.
Conventions and patterns do not gel with the characteristics profile of Piscean
children and they find it very difficult to stick to them. So, their teachers
might find it a little difficult to fit in them in a particular mould. They will
hold an interest in various art forms, music, dance and anything that's
creative. A Piscean child is quite good with words and may become involved in
poetry or story telling. Handling responsibilities will hardly be his cup of tea
and you will have to teach him this. The fish is also extremely sensitive and
harsh words are enough to being tears in his eyes.
He will have a deep wisdom and will mostly prefer spending time with adults,
rather than kids. People often accuse a March-born kid of lying, but this is not
the case. He does not have a malicious bone in his body. It's just that he has
his own vision of the world and the realities are too harsh for him to bear. So,
he adds his own color and warmth to the situation to make it somewhat bearable.
He needs your sympathetic attitude or he may draw into an unspoken, glum
depression. What a Piscean baby sees and hears, no other person in the world can
even imagine.
Whenever he starts imagining, encourage him to capture it in the form of
paintings, poems or other forms of art. Then, gently goad him to face the brutal
realities of life. Slowly, he will learn to accept the world as it is. Don't
stifle his fantasies; he needs to see them in order to build up the strength to
face the facts of life. After he has refreshed his own soul, he will be able to
do the same for others too. You can always learn from his empathy, patience,
imagination and calmness. About that silver stars he follows, just wait and it
is possible that one day, he brings it home and then, you can wish on it too! |
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