The first comment that people give when they see a Libra child is something
like, "Such a cute baby". His sweet expression, chubby cheeks and captivating
smile are sure to win hearts of nearly all the people around him. He also seems
very calm and composed and you will seldom find him screaming without a reason.
Now comes the not-so-nice part! One thing you should never give a Libran baby is
a choice; he will seldom be able to make a decision easily. On top of that, if
you force him to hurry up, forget that he will ever reach a conclusion.
Since he takes time to make up his mind, he may appear to be stubborn. But, this
is not true. He is just thinking which task to do first. Yelling wouldn't help.
Infact, it will disturb his equilibrium state of mind and he will become more
confused than ever. You give a Libran child some work, one task at a time and he
will do it in a jiffy, since he will not be making any choice. You also have to
be sure that you are not asking him to do something it too harshly. Mild tones
work the best with him. Teach him how to make up his mind, in a very pleasant
way.
The best way to do this is to suggest him a solution again and again. Show him
how to reach a conclusion time and again and gradually; he will get over his
indecisiveness. A Libran baby likes harmony and discord disturbs his state of
mind. He needs peace, quiet and rest much more than the other children. Things
like loud voice and harsh colors do not suit him well. Whenever you start
getting frustrated over his indecision, just remember it is in his
characteristics profile and he can do nothing about it.
One of the basic reasons for a Libra baby's vacillation is that he wants to be
fair and balanced. He doesn't wants to misjudge a situation or a person and
tends to weigh both the sides too much. One of the annoying personality traits
of a Libran child is his laziness. He may not move an inch for hours at a time.
Here, you will have to remember that he is not lazy in the literal sense. Infact,
most of the time he is hyperactive. He needs these resting spells to regain his
strength. Soon, he will be his energetic self again. Don't fuss with him about
inactiveness; otherwise he may become lazier in self-defense.
Libran children are quite gentle, kind, considerate and have a pleasant
personality. They have the ability of softening even the hardest of hearts with
their smile. They are very bright and have the ability of taking both the sides
in a debate and then, winning both of them. A Libran child is found arguing many
a times, since he cannot tolerate someone making a casual remark about
something. According to him, you have to look at both the sides of the coin and
only then should you comment on a situation or a person.
You won't be facing much problem in making him adhere to the rules, as long as
you have managed to convince him about them. With a Libran baby, you will have
to sharpen your wits every now and then. He may argue about anything under the
sun and then, you will need logic to support your side. He is entirely faithful
and you can easily tell him any secret. He believes in maintaining the trust of
people and will seldom indulge in gossip. Don't expect him to take your side if
you are wrong.
A Libra child has a strong sense of fairness, which forces him to take the side
of only that person who is right. Of course, he will take time making up his
mind about who is right. He will respect your privacy and expect the same from
you. He will also be quite neat and orderly, since he hates mess. Art and beauty
is something in which almost all the Librans maintain an interest. He will also
have his days of kiddy romance. All said and done, your Libran child will be
delight to nurture, especially with those cute dimples and that captivating
smile of his! |
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