Have you met a Cancerian woman recently? Are you a little confused as to what
she really is - chirpy, somber or distant? She is all of these and still, she is
none of these. Even more confused? A Cancerian woman has mood swings every now
and then and these are only a few of her mood swings. However, her basic
personality traits remain the same. She is very sensitive, emotional, kind and
caring. Now's the catch! Most of her traits will be hidden behind a shell of
indifference and aloofness, breaking which will require quite a lot of effort.
You will have to gently coerce a Cancerian girl to get out of her shell and come
into the big bad world without it. The best time to do this is in the moonlight,
when there are maximum changes of catching her in her true emotions. When in
love, she will be tender, womanly, timid and modest. She dislikes criticisms,
can't stand rejection and gets deeply hurt by harsh words. Too much
aggressiveness on your part may make her a little hesitant. She loves her
mother, so you better learn to love as well as respect her too.
A Cancer woman will never make the first moves in a relationship; she only knows
how to move backwards or sideways. This is because of two reasons, her shyness
and her fear of being rejected. This female has some secrets and she won't like
you prying around her personal diary. She is very insecure and will need your
constant reassurance. It doesn't matter if she is the current 'Miss Universe' or
has men drooling over her all the time, it is your attention and appreciation
she would be the most concerned about.
You will have to learn to live with a Cancerian woman’s mood swings, which is
not so difficult since she is so good in every other way. She is extremely loyal
and will keep you happy with her warm and rich humor. Once she is committed to
you, she will remain yours forever and ever. Adultery is not one of her traits.
With a Cancerian woman, you will always have to be careful with words. She is
very sentimental and can get hurt very easily. Then, she can cry like a 2-year
old baby and you will be expected to console her and wipe her tears.
A Cancer female is a great cook and makes better food than a 5-star hotel chef.
She is quite careful with money as well. Neither will she be stingy, nor totally
extravagant. She has a habit of saving everything that is usable, be it money,
old buttons or empty jars. She also saves things that have a sentimental value
attached to them, like the sweater grandmother knitted on her fifth birthday. A
Cancer female fiercely guards what is hers and that includes you too! However,
she is not too possessive or jealous. But, she does not like sharing her love
too.
She is one of those people who do not crib about bad luck. She will get
depressed and may shed a few tears alone, but she will be patient and wait for
the time to change again, this time in her favor. Almost all the Cancerians have
the desire of being pampered like a child, especially when they feel low. Don't
forget to pay your Cancer girl extra attention when she is depressed, otherwise
she may retreat deeper into her shell. And then, it will be very difficult to
bring her back to her normal self.
She will want to be told time and again that she is still desirable and you
still need her. However, she is not weak and is completely capable of looking
after herself. In fact, she is one of those who sacrifice all that they have,
for their loved ones. She just needs some spoiling after every few days. A
Cancerian woman may be fragile as far as her feelings are concerned, but when
you need her, she will be as strong as the 'Rock of Gibraltar'. She will also be
very protective of her children and make them feel completely secure.
Kids will be the center of her universe and she will pamper them with her love,
affection and care. The children will also be very close to her and no matter
how much far they go from home, they will come back to her and she will know
this. A Cancer female always needs you, but she will never get too aggressive.
She knows that you may leave for a while, to follow your dreams, but in the end,
she is the one you will come back to. Then, you will find her as charming as
before, waiting for you with freshly baked bread and hot soup. She will feed
you, listen to your worries and make you smile again! Need anything more? |
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